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Femoral Rotations and New Information

This week has been a challenge. Madison is starting to learn balance and walk without her crutches. This is the first time watching her walk since her surgeries back in May and we’ve been a little concerned. Her waddle is that of an old lady or something that is not of this world. At first it’s a bit comical but as I was trying to help her figure out how to walk “normal”, we realized that her right hip is considerably higher than the other. Of course this involved an email into her surgeon to find out if this is normal.

We had to wait until Monday to find the answer and all of the information was rather interesting, to say the least. And the following information is for femoral twists only. I’ve heard the TYPE of surgeries she had are for MANY different problems/complications but what I’m going to go into now is related only to the femoral twists that these kiddos are born with.

So because her thigh bones were twisted, her hip flexors rotated her legs when she walked. This is how she learned how to walk, run, jump and play; her body not knowing that this wasn’t normal. Now that she’s had her legs corrected, her hip flexors are having to re-learn how to move and engage which is causing her waddle. She literally doesn’t know how to walk, ie. swing her hips, which is how we all normally walk.

This completely changes the dynamics of her entire body. If affects her lower legs, obviously her thighs and hips, her lower back, her shoulders. Yep, her entire body. Most of the time she’s pretty light-hearted about all of this and she’s a pretty amazing kid but we still have our breakdown moments when she’s tired, or hurting, or even tired of not being able to walk the way she used to. What’s also very interesting is that the breaks in her thighs are just now starting to cause her pain and discomfort. I had thought we were done with the wheelchair but we will be taking it with us on our out-of-town trip that’s coming up.

My biggest advice at this time is patience and listen to your kiddo. Their fears, frustrations, worry and pain are with them 24/7 which is so easy to forget when we climb into bed. We aren’t living with it so we don’t know it as intimately as our kiddos do. Sometimes I just pull her aside when no one else is around and I let her vent. She can swear, cry, yell, laugh, anything she wants to because this human of mine is dealing with a LOT. This world has a lot of sharp edges in it, I want to be the safe place for her to land every time.

I have quite a few videos of how she moves and walks if you would like to see over on my Facebook page. Unfortunately I can’t upload any videos here or I would. My Facebook page is https://www.facebook.com/raeanne.hadley. Have a great weekend and keep up the amazing love and strength!

In sickness and health, in survivorness and wealth

Boy has it been a crazy few months. Few months? Try almost a year! I can’t believe how long since I’ve last posted in my blog but as I’m finding out, there are MILLIONS of bloggers out there so I know you’ve had plenty of reading material and haven’t missed mine. But in the absence of my posting thoughts, I have been busy so with knowing that I might bore you, I’m going to share what I’ve been doing.

As many may or may not know, my youngest daughter has been sick. We have been in and out of the hospital for blood tests, regular tests, anything to Winter 20012.2013 005 Winter 20012.2013 038 Winter 20012.2013 041 Winter 20012.2013 047 Winter 20012.2013 056 Winter 20012.2013 060 Winter 20012.2013 063 Winter 20012.2013 064 Winter 20012.2013 065 Winter 20012.2013 067 Winter 20012.2013 068try to find out what’s wrong. My children are so very precious to me so every tear she shed I also shed. During this time I attempted to keep writing, marketing and promoting my books, along with many other talented writers and keep up on my chores of our little ranch. In the midst of this I ended up having to have a hysterectomy (I know, let’s just add a little more stress, eh?) but trying to keep up with everything I ended up ripping my incision twice, delaying my healing. Two deadlines were missed getting my latest 2 novels out, I was struggling to keep up with marketing and finally, after a mini-meltdown, I went on an author’s sabbatical to get a handle on things. Deep breath.

It’s a good thing that I did. We had one of the coldest winters in history and I struggled to keep my animals safe and fresh water to them. My husband was driving 52 miles one-way to work in blizzard conditions, alternating between 13 hour day and graveyard shifts. The medication the doctor’s had put my daughter on was not working and my oldest daughter was not understanding why Mommy was spending so much time with little sister. Of course during this chaos, we had a presidential election and our country has been split and building into a crisis mode. Unease is flourishing throughout the country. It’s time for a change, literally.

I have always been aware of hormones, processed foods and the health of our beings. I’ve bought organic for my family and have been learning how to make my own anything. When the price of beef skyrocketed in our small town, I began to eye our deer differently. What if our society collapsed as we know it? How would we feed our family? I need to take care of my own. So begins the Hadley Ranch. We are fixing up the small barn for pigs and goats and because our property isn’t large enough to grow our own beef, Steve has applied for the tags to get the deer and elk that wander on and around our property. I’ve started my non-GMO seeds so the plants will be ready for our greenhouse and will be taking my hunter’s safety course so that if need be, I can help provide and defend my family. Do I think we are headed for a collapse? I don’t know but I’d rather hope for the best but be prepared for the worst.

As far as how my writing is going? Well, you can put an author on sabbatical but their brain never goes on vacation. I’ve started writing the story about my father who suffered and ultimately died of a stroke. I want to write a help book for those families affected by stroke to hopefully help them understand the emotions and side-effects of it. I’ve also started doing research on our home, which appears to be haunted. With the help of some amazing people, I have uncovered some really interesting history in the place we now call home. I think it should be interesting and I know will turn into an amazing story.

So there it is in a nutshell. I’ve gone from best-selling author of metaphysical romance to a survivalist, pioneer woman, natural healer, detective. My ADHD is loving this though my calm nature is screaming out for a time out. We shall see…we shall see….